Saturday, February 21, 2009

Don’t Expect too much out of Anything


It is high time as one gets over with his teen life he should realize that Friendship is not every thing in life. As soon as one realizes it, better for him/her. When we are kid we make friends. Then we grow old and now we can choose specific friends with whom we can confide every thing. What if one gets to know that friendship which meant the world for him is only superficial relationship. His friend just care enough to be there in your good times and one incorrect step he’s not there.

Follow this line as a LAW of RELATIONSHIP, “ NEVER EXPECT TOO MUCH OUT OF RELATIONSHIP” because once you start feeling that the relationship means the world to you, and one wrong step of the friend brings the   feeling of a  lost creature. Like the whole motive of the friendship is lost. Your feelings as a friend is overcome with a belief that all the great true stories of friendship are good for them but in this world no one really cares. It hurts and makes one sink to the deepest trench of grieves. The world is destroyed. This Law is the best way to survive in this pitiable world where everyone lives for himself first and then think else.  

Other than this it also means that you should never share your deep sorrow to all because 50 % are happy that you are in trouble and the rest don’t care about your trouble. With thrashed expectations you can never revive your friendship again how hard you may try. At least when not expecting much from the relationship, everything is casual. No grief, life moves on. No worries, no cries. The spilt milk can be wiped of easily. The next day is exactly the same just one friend less of your GTALK or your phonebook. YOU ARE HAPPY, world is still as it is. LIFE MOVES on.

4 comments:

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Jessika said...

Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art... It has no survival value, it takes a long time to grow an old friend and when you think you can trust him/her, you sadly realize that one's best friend is oneself. So making friends is a waste of time.

Unknown said...

yup...rightly said...only constants are birth and death..
Death is peaceful and easy..LIFE is harder..

Felix said...

I agree with you...it doesn't matter whatever relationship one might enter into but he/she should never forget their own priority.By this i don't mean to say that one should become selfish...but should know to keep balance between the two that is the "priority" and the "relationship"(mostly equated to friendship).